Men —What does a Goddess want?

“Pleasuring the Goddess”

By Pam Babbitt, S.I.

What does a Goddess want?

The answer is clear – she wants it all! She wants your full presence and to know that she is the object of your greatest desire. She wants heart connection, soul connection and body connection. She yearns to have all her senses stimulated. She wants gentle light caresses that continue forever. At times, her body’s wisdom may suggest that it wants to be pampered into relaxation with no agenda for sexual arousal. She wants to know that you fully delight in pleasuring her, even when there is no reciprocity.

Ever wonder why your partner is a
Goddess one week and
a Witch the next?

Why your female boss is open to a promotion
or raise for you one week-
and dashes your hopes the next?

Why your daughter is a sweet heart one week
and a Daughter of Darkness the next?

It is a woman’s hormones…and no worries; it is cyclical. And you can survive…and so will she – if you are aware of the reasons why the changes that are hormonal – affect her behavior.  Instead of pushing her buttons, learn and understand the beauty of her cyclical nature.

In most instances it is the lack of understanding and compassion that will drive her to the edge.
Believe me, she does not want to be there – and neither do you.

Act- Don’t React

Understanding the hormonal changes your partner/boss is going through can be enlightening and
will add depth to your relationship; whether it is personal or professional.
Every life form on this planet is influenced by a 29.5 cycle; the lunar cycle.

No, this does not mean that women are “lunatics”! What it does mean is that women’s hormone cycles are connected to a higher source – life cycles; universal cycles. And women need to be respected for their connection; their ability to create life.
Women and men are the only life forms on this planet who have forgotten the physical, mental, emotional and spiritual relevance of this cycle that is integral to our health and well being…

And because we have forgotten we are killing ourselves
and taking the rest of the planet down with us.

Take the time to learn about what makes the women in your life so special and unique.
And you will also find that which makes you the same.

Hormone Hostage

Every “Hormone Hostage” knows that there are days in the month when all a man has to do is open his mouth and he takes his life in his hands. This is a handy guide that should be as common as a driver’s license in the wallet of every husband, boyfriend or significant other.

What’s for dinner?
Can I help you with dinner?
Where would you like to go for dinner?

Are you wearing THAT?
Gee, you look good in brown.
Wow! Look at you!

What are you so worked up about?
Could we be overreacting?
SAFEST: Here is fifty dollars

Should you be eating that?
You know, there are a lot of apples left.
Can I get you a glass of wine with that?

What did you DO all day?
I hope you didn’t overdo it today?
SAFEST: I’ve always loved you in that robe.

Why does it take 1 million sperm to fertilize one egg?
They won’t stop to ask for directions!


Author: Leslie Carol Botha

Author, publisher, radio talk show host and internationally recognized expert on women's hormone cycles. Social/political activist on Gardasil the HPV vaccine for adolescent girls. Co-author of "Understanding Your Mood, Mind and Hormone Cycle." Honorary advisory board member for the Foundation for the Study of Cycles and member of the Society for Menstrual Cycle Research.