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Love this web site Ways Women Orgasm– and of course, the author of the post is brilliant – for men orgasm signals the end of the ride. For women orgasm is the culmination of the feelings the ride has emoted. Or are they? We all know when we feel the thrill of orgasm… but we also know our learned behavioral response and the verbal response when he/she
rolls off and asks “Was it good for you?”
Granted we have come a long way in enjoying sex – but we may just need to do some more introspection –
about ‘faking’ or making or orgasms really happen. Not any different than our lives actually. Faking vs. making.
Men are motivated by intercourse not by orgasm
Ways Women Orgasm
September 1, 2014
There is an amazing lack of tolerance for any discussion of sex that does not involve promoting women as the sexual equals (or superiors) of men. Confident of the full backing of heterosexual society women defend their sexual ego against any information that might explain a gap (between expectation and reality) that they are not even willing to admit exists.
Why should they be offended by an issue that does not concern them? Our society exercises a form of voluntary censorship whereby any facts that support the fantasy are promoted while contrary facts are suppressed.
The bravado of women who claim to orgasm with a lover[i], as well as the derision that is poured on women who know that it is not easy, indicate that conscious
behaviours are involved and not natural responses.
A woman’s experience is truly unique when it makes her look good but does nothing to explain the differences in women’s orgasm techniques.
If female orgasm is so ‘natural’ and ‘common’ why is every woman not an expert? Why does a woman not give herself an orgasm? Orgasm has become a specialised topic that few women are willing to comment on.
Even in this modern age it is suggested that women are too modest or too embarrassed to talk about sex and orgasm. This is ludicrous. Female orgasm with a lover is the most hotly promoted experience of all time!